Anonymous asked this question on 7/11/2000:
Help, I'm a twenty-year old female and I've been with about 8 guys in my life time. All have different sizes and styles, The problem is no matter how good the sex is or how much I feel for the person or how good the person is orally or even how thick and long the person is I WILL NOT HAVE AN ORGASM. What's wrong could I possibly have some kind of sexual disfuncntion, I mean I'm supposed to be in my peak or at least experiencing all kinds of pleasures, what can I do??? I feel like I'm the only person who has not climaxed. HElP
Magic7474 gave this response on 7/12/2000:
I have looked at a few of the other responses you have received and most are quite good. If I may offer a mans point of view...some of which were addressed...I do believe that you have to know what makes you tick...what makes you feel good...how can you tell a man what to do if you don't know your self...When you masterbate...as you are enjoying the feeling...focus on what works for you...when you are in the throws of passion with your mate...forget about having an orgasim...Its been my experience that when you least expect it...it will all come together (no pun intended)...You have to have a patient and understanding man and explain to him what is going on...and take your time...
Hope this helps