G_I_JESS asked this question on 7/11/2000:
Hello. Is there really a way that you can tell that your b/f likes somebody else? Or if he likes you? Thanx...Jessica
LadyMara gave this response on 7/12/2000:
You know Jessica...
You can look for "signs" all you want, but no matter how clear they look...they are all just assumptions. You don't really know what is going on. The only true way to find out is to ask outright. Tell him that you want a serious answer and ask him for the truth. If some of the "signs" that he might like someone else are apparent, ask him about them. "Why does it seem like you look at other women more?" Or "why do you seem to light up when she comes around?" or even "You seem to be distant." You have to take whatever you see and ask about it!
I hope this helps you some!