jyo asked this question on 7/12/2000:
HI THERE I M SO FUCKIN CONFUSED I DONNO WHAT TO DO NE MORE. I CHAT A LOT ON THE INTERNET AND I MET A GUY FROM MY CITY ON THE CHAT AND WE STARTED DATING BUT THEN THINGS WENT WRONG SINCE WE HAD DIFFERENT RELIGIONS AND WE HAD DIFFERENT TIMING OF OUR JOBS SO WE COULD HARDLY EVER GET IN TOUGFH NE WAYS WE BROKE UP CAZ ONCE HE CALLED ME AND I WAS ON THE CHAT WITH HIS YOUNGER BROTHER AN DI TOLD HIM TO HANG ON I HAVE TO LOGG OFF FROM THE NET HE THOUGHT THAT I SAID I WAS TALKING TO MY OTHER BF BUT IN REALITY I DONT HAVE ANY OTHER BOY FRIEND. I LOVE THIS GUY WITH ALL MY HEART BUT I JUST COULDNT TAKE THE ABUSIVE LANGUAGE HE USES WHEN EVER HE GETS UPSET SO WE BROKE UP AND I STILL LOVE HIM WE BOTH STILL GO ON THE CHAT AND NOW HE IS DATING ANOTHER GIRL FROM THE CHAT ROOM AND I M SO HURT. I DONNO
muffin1960 gave this response on 7/13/2000:
You may care about him, but if he's chatting up someone else. I would probably try and cool it awhile with him. Absence does make the heart grow fonder.
If he is truly interested he will contact you again and when he does let him know the abusive language can't continue if he wants to be with you and also explain about who you were talking too. Maybe that will clear things and you can start back. Hope this helps GOOD LUCK