AprilBreezes asked this question on 5/6/2000:
I have a strange problem. I have an active libdo and I need sex often. The problem is my boyfriend wont let me go out with other guys for sex. That sounds normal so far right? Well, here is where the problem lays. After my boyfriend and I have sex, he gets very irrate, and calls me names like whore, slut, cheap c#nt, and that sort of things. He also tells me how Jesus is going to condem me to hell and Satan owns my soul. He dont think of these things before sex, but after, he get wierd!!! I have tried to break up with him, but he says he'll never break up with me. He will make sure that I never leave him! HELP! What can I do? He even thinks using dildos and other sex toys to please myself is enough to "beat me back to God" so to speak. If you have any ideas, I would be so thankful. April B.
Springeagle gave this response on 5/7/2000:
April: Sounds to me like you are addicted to lust and you need therapy in that area. It is very common among sexual abuse survivors to be addicted to lust. Sleeping around will not help at all but that does not imply that you are evil in any way at all. Your friend should get the proper information if he is to preach and tell lhim to stop using God as an excuse. There are many good books on the subject and even Micheal Douglas,the renound actor has admitted to this problem, and is doing deep work on his problem. Please get some help, your life will get much better and you will enjoy the sex you have in a better way. Love Light and Peace to you always, Springeagle
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